On the evening of October 23rd, 2012 a teenaged boy was walking on the sidewalk when he was approached by a male in a car in the vicinity of Sim’s Market in the 600 block of West Broad Street in Bethlehem. The male in the car told the boy that he was sent by the boy’s father to pick him up. The boy thought this was suspicious and told the male “No”. The boy turned the corner and ran home. The man in the car followed for a short while before stopping. The car was not seen after that time.
The male in the car is described as follows:
- Hispanic male
- Age: 40s
- Wearing glasses
- Spoke with scratchy voice with no accent
The car is described as:
- Dark colored Subaru
- Possibly purple
- Nothing else described or distinguishing
If anyone has any information on this incident, please contact Bethlehem Police Detective Sergeant David Bartera at 610.865.7187 or DBartera@bethlehem-pa.gov.
The boy in this incident did everything right. He recognized that this was suspicious, told the man “No” and ran home and reported the whole incident to his parent. The parent did the right thing by calling the police and reporting this incident. Having a talk with your children about bad things can be very difficult to do, but can also make all the difference when bad things happen. Are you prepared? Have you had these difficult talks with your children? If not, please consider it. Here are some tips on what to tell them.
Tips for Keeping Kids Aware and Safe
- Teach your child to always “CHECK FIRST” before s/he goes anywhere with anyone at any time for any reason. This includes going with relatives and people the child knows. They should always check first with the person who is caring for them at that time. If it is impossible to check with the caregiver, then the answer is “NO! You may not go.”
- Teach your child, when s/he is outside, to always walk with at least one other person. Groups of more than two are better.
- When your child is outside the house, do not allow him or her to wear clothing or a backpack or other articles with his/her name visible on it. Children are more likely to trust someone who calls them by name.
- Teach your child to stay more than an adult arm’s length away from any car that is occupied by a person trying to talk to him/her, so that they cannot be reached by the person inside the car.
- Teach your child if someone encourages him or her to get into a car, to help find a lost pet, or to leave with them for any reason, s/he should yell “NO” as loudly as possible and run to the closest adult whom they know and trust. Yelling “No,” also called the POWER NO, indicates your child has been prepared for the situation.
- Teach your child to run in the opposite direction from the one the car is facing. It is harder to drive in reverse than straight ahead.
- Teach your child their full name, address and if, there is one, the “best” phone number (including area code) to call in case of an emergency. If you make it into a song, younger children may be more likely to remember it. If no phone number is reliable, teach your child to call 911 for help.
- Teach your older child to pay attention to the color and make of the vehicle and/or its license information (state and number), the physical characteristics of the person(s), and where s/he was when approached. Suggest that this information be written down as soon as it can be done safely.
- Remind your child to call 911 to report any attempted luring.
- Make a daily note of the clothing your child is wearing just in case you need to provide that information later. Keep your child’s ID Kit with a current school picture, or other recent photograph, handy.
Parents are now encouraged to avoid using the term “stranger danger.” It tends to induce fear. In addition, statistics show that it is more often someone the child knows, rather than a stranger, who inflicts harm. Besides, there are many ways an adult can convince a child s/he is not a stranger.
For more tips and helpful safety information, you can visit Safety Kids,Inc.